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My answer to "Can you recommend a therapist to help with my anxiety?"
I’m honored when people reach out for advice in a pivotal moment. On the other, the path to self- (and anxiety) awareness is littered with false starts and confusion. It can be hard to know exactly what to say. I confront my ambivalence about therapy and come up with the response I want to share with a friend. Now I share it with you, friends!
Survey Says
A couple of weeks ago, I ran a survey on The Beautiful Voyager newsletter and Facebook page to get to know what everyone's needs were. I told you that I would share the results when they were in. The time for that sharing is....now.
Since I have nothing to hide from you, fellow voyagers, I will tell you exactly what people said and how I interpreted it. It's always interesting to get feedback and try to understand it. Even moreso when it's about a topic like stress and overthinking! See what you think.
A Curious Case of SIBO
The journey to diagnosis can be an uphill and silent battle. Sometimes it's just a matter of getting lucky and reading a blog post at the right time.
To that end, I'm sharing a little Q&A with a friend of mine, who I'll call FS. After years of trying to figure out what was wrong with her, FS was diagnosed last year with SIBO.
How to Catapult Yourself Out of Caveman Brain
Even now, though I’ve been aware of my own overthinky tendancies for years, I still find myself randomly carried away by my negative thoughts. It’s understandable. Getting abducted by thinking is the way my life has always been. My brain is habituated by years of caveman practice.
To get away from a possible clubbing, it’s clear what I need to do:
Evolve quickly.
The Overthinker's Emoji
A guide to the most overthinky emoji on Snapchat, Facebook, and the iPhone.
(As if you didn't already know them all.)
Use Color to Stop the Spin
My friend Molly and I were discussing our internal spinning loops of repetitive thought.
Have you ever experienced these loops? They’re the ones that keep us from reaching our goals. Instead of solid ground, we pace in place, or even worse, slip around, like contestants in a log-rolling competition.
I asked Molly about her loop cutting tricks, since anyone who experiences the spin has them. She said...
Don't Go Spelunking Without a Flashlight
I’ve had this nauseated black hole feeling in the pit of my stomach. It’s coincided with looking down at my belly and saying “Oh hey, you again."